Let's Talk About Sex Baby...Sex 101:Class Is In Session

Do you know what arouses your partner? Have you asked them what they like or what they desire as well as would like to experience? No? well let's talk.

Ladies, men are visual beings while we are emotional beings. Hmm...Tori what do you mean? Let me explain..It doesn't take much for a man to become aroused. Once a man sees something that sparks his interest he is ready and willing to engage in sex. It can be a butt, breasts, vagina, a woman's shape, or it could be the view of another man that can turn them on. Men are also more physically aroused than women. Just a touch alone from a person of interest can make a man aroused.

FUN FACT: It takes a man about 5-10 minutes from the beginning of being aroused to finally climaxing!

Now let's talk about the Ladies.....

Men, what do you know about the woman's body? Do you know what arouses a female? No? Well let me tell you.

Women are emotional creatures as you may know. To get a woman aroused, it takes time and effort. Unlike men, women need their physical, emotional, mental, sexual, and visual side to be triggered in order to be aroused and keep her there. For example, You send your lady a text while she is at work and you're telling her how much you miss her and want her or even what you want to do with her. She is liking what you're texting, but it's only one problem...IT'S 12 NOON! She doesn't get off until 5p!! She gives you a naughty reply agreeing to being in the mood with you. However, that is where the texting ends. From Noon until 5p you all don't talk anymore.

Now she is off of work and is stuck in traffic, she had a long day at work,she is tired and has completely forgot about the conversation you all had. Meanwhile, you're at home ready to go when you see her pull up into the driveway. She walks in the house and you are there thinking that her energy is going to match yours. Aht Aht! WRONG! You have to build her arousal up all over again. Now not only do you have to trigger every side of her but you may want to consider foreplay.

My point is, with women, you have to consider how she feels and be willing to put in effort to keep her in the mood. Any little switch up can turn a woman off to the point where you are back at square one.

FUN FACT: For women, It takes about 20 minutes or longer from the arousal stage to climax!! Because of the woman's ability to take longer than a man to climax, TOYS ARE YOUR FRIEND! Let her cum first..gosh be polite for crying out loud! No seriously, toys work wonders in this matter. You both are being satisfied in every way. See the thing with women, we can cum over and over again. However, the gag is, if you're in the midst of foreplay or even sex...if you switch up the rhythm in ANY kind of way..guess what buddy?... You gotta build that arousal up all over again.

So as I wrap up, invest in toys and open your mind to experience new and different things. You might learn that you always had a kinky inner freak in you. This is it..You read it here first. I enjoyed our discussion and I hope you learned something from this. Until next time, Love Yourself..Love Each Other..and remember...ALWAYS play Naughty!...

-Tori, xoxo